Chapters 3, 4, and 5!

Lessons from each....


CHAPTER 3

~ Don't sleep with him right away! You are a "candy store" and you should only give him one piece at a time, not open access after hours!
~ Make him earn you sexual advances.
~ TRICK: Instead of wearing that black lace nightie, hang it on the inside of the bathroom door so that when he is in there, he sees it and then has to imagine you in it for the rest of the night.
~ The longer he has to wait, the more of a challenge it becomes and his competitive nature will kick in to win you over.
~ Red means no, green means yes, and yellow means you are being a tease and pissing him off!
~ Once you become a booty call, he will lose respect for you and will no longer see you in a long term relationship view.



CHAPTER 4

~ Cater to his ego. Let him be the manly man.
~ When you appear softer and more feminine, you appeal to his instinct to protect. When you appear more aggressive, you appeal to his instinct to compete.
~ Use words such as "best" to let him know you think highly of him. Make sure you always tell him he's right or it was his idea.
~ The "dumb fox" makes him feel like King Kong in her world and there are many ways to "stroke his ego"... If you are walking your dog at dusk, ask him to come with because you want him to keep you safe... If he kills a bug, look away and do not turn back until he assures you he has secured the premises.... If you hear a noise at night, act really scared and ask him to check it out... Ask him to open a jar you can't open (even if you can) or unzip your dress (even if you can reach it)... If it's cold outside, crawl under his coat and hold on tight for warmth
~ He'll let a women who becomes his doormat pay for dinner on the first couple of dates, but he wouldn't even think of it with his dreamgirl.
~ Remember that men are very territorial so divide the house to where he doesn't feel like you are controlling when you take over the bathroom (make it clear that the garage, basement, and yard are his domain)
~ Men don't respond to words. They respond to no contact.
~ When you are always HAPPY, and he is always free to GO, he feels lucky.



CHAPTER 5

~ If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you'll create a void. Then, to replace what you give up, you'll start to expect and need more from your partner.
~ A woman looks more secure in a man's eyes when he can't pull her away from her life, because she is content in her life.
~ Your true power is marked by: realizing what your rhythm is and moving to it, knowing who you are and what you will or will not accept, having the ability to make a decision without second guessing yourself afterward and without being talked out of how you feel, and having self-control because true power is the control you have over yourself.
~ Don't talk for hours before your first date. Don't discuss deep issues in the beginning. Don't tell him who you were in a past life. Avoid seeing him more than one night in a row for the first month or so (1 or 2 nights per week is perfect). Don't pout or whimper when he doesn't call. Don't try to fix his flaws. Don't accompany him when he goes out with the boys. Don't happily drive over to his house if he calls you late at night after being out with friends. Don't date someone who has an addiction of any kind and offer to go to meetings with him (let him fix his problems first). Avoid last minute dates because you miss him. Don't ask for affection if he isn't showing any.
~ To keep the spark from fizzling, it's sometimes best to stay ever-so-slightly just outside a man's reach, because it charges up his batteries.



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OOO and can't forget the quote....
"I am good, but not an angel. I do sin, but I am not the devil. I am just a small girl in a big world trying to find someone to love."
-Marilyn Monroe